Coaching for Singles: Find a Relationship with the Law of Attraction

October 24th, 2009 by admin

Nanette Geiger, Relationship Coach , writes… …

Single people who come to me to grasp the Law of Attraction to attract a relationship sometimes come to me for advice. They wonder, “Can you create an incompatible lover?” The answer to that is Yes and No. Let me explain. You create the “Wrong” lover based on what it is you project you want. That is, your positive thoughts are projecting “I desire a lover who is fun, caring, and passionate. Someone who will treat me well” and your true subconscious intention is something more like … “I never meet the right woman. Why is it my pals have such a simple route? What am I doing incorrectly? Where are all of the single amazing women? And so on. So you are going to end up creating more about what you’re thinking and expecting. So is she incorrect? Perhaps, is your thinking wrong? The Law of Attraction says what you pay attention to you get more of. So if you’re single and are searching for a relationship, you must pay attention to what it’s like to be in love, not the other way around.

A great way to strengthen your thinking on this is by using a powerful tool that Abraham-Hicks teaches called Book of Positive Aspects. This is a powerful tool for creating a Love with the Law of Attraction.

You can wield this tool when you find you have a lot of negative vibrations and need to continue shifting your intention and find a better feeling place. When you want to strengthen your threshold of creation since you have got some negative momentum going. Here is how it works: you should do this by hand to help acquire the jist of the exercise. I really suggest that you never cease to write a Book of Positive Aspects. You’ll want to set aside at least 15 minutes for this process.

At the top of the paper put down the area of what you desire a more harmonious energy set point on. Maybe a certain thing has caught your attention that you do not like, you’d prefer to not experience it, or maybe you’ve got a good bit of judgment about this subject and feel bad. Write down what that is. Then notice that you know what you do not want and the contrast has helped you to create the desire of what you DO want. Your job is to write down in detail you want. And keep turning your desire to the better feeling thought. Jot lists of what you like about what IS working, what’s good, what you have that you DO like, even about the present life situation. Search for aspects of your life to be grateful for in the area and in any outside or related situation. This will put you to the positive attraction mode. You’ll attract what you want rather than its opposite. Test it out for yourself. Isn’t it time you had everything you wanted?