Confidence and Creating Love

November 16th, 2009 by admin

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Nanette Geiger, Relationship Best Selling Author , writes… …

A Life Coach for people with confidence or self-esteem problems is extremely valuable in addressing this following question. Women tend to be plagued mostly from trust, abandonment and lack of feelings of being worthy issues. Life Coaching for Women is one solution to solve this issue in relationship coaching. Anita asks: “Are some people just meant to be alone”? Anita, since you responded to our survey concerning love and the Law of Attraction, I’m going to assume you’ve considering creating love for you. Many people decide to keep away from serious relationships. And that is not always the situation for a person who’s stopped after they’ve continuously been unsuccessful. Nothing at all is wrong with preferring to be without an intimate relationship. Your life can be fulfilled and fantastic with any decision you end up with.

As long as you realize you are deciding that instead of throwing up your hands out of frustration that you have not created the love of your dreams. You can have it all in a relationship and in life.

If you could see yourself from the point of view of Source or your Inner Being, or the Universe, you’d be viewing a beautiful, fantastic, brilliant, connected consciousness. Then life begins to occur around us. Our well-meaning parents, teachers, and elders, in an attempt to teach us, teach us from the beginning what we need to look out for, stop us, caution us, and try to protect us, effectively having us listen to their fears and insecurities rather than tuning in to our own guidance systems. OK, I will give you as simple new creatures we do need protection. Fine. But shortly following they understand to do things by themselves, self-awareness should be part of the training for the little children.

Well-meaning parents want to do the right thing so they guide, caution, admonish, and scare young ones to make them behave. This only creates an underlying insecurity and inability. The sensation of not-enoughness gets instilled at an early age.

Neurological research now explains to us that before we’re 7, we’re so open and receptive, we have no filtering abilities at all. We walk around in a kind of hypnagogic trance and become impressed with whatever comes into our life experience. It is not a wonder we have deeply ingrained, although misplaced, beliefs about an imperfect nature. By the time we are 6 years old, we have listened to the word “NO” about 60,000 times. Watch out for that, that could hurt you, be careful, do not drop that. The recurring message says you are inept, you can’t trust yourself, you don’t understand what you are doing, and so on.

Our parents and elders were indeed well-meaning. They only intended for our well-being. But you can see how simply we have been trained away from our innate greatness and brilliance.

I recommend that you go easy on yourself and give yourself a break. First off, it is not your fault. It’s not even the fault of your elders. They were taught the same way too. You can stop the perpetration of lower sense of self-worth on yourself and everyone you know. You deserve to have anything your heart desires.

Do your very best to give yourself love and self-acceptance. Adhere to yourself as you would a beloved child. Forgive her for her shortcomings. The truth is, the Universe adores, Spirit adores you, and your Inner Being loves you. Why? Because you ARE adorable. And that IS the reality!