Do You Continue Creating Emotionally Inept Mates?

December 6th, 2009 by admin

Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Relationship Best Selling Author , writes… …

“I frequently seem to create a partner who is emotionally unavailable. What should I do to alter that”? This is a question that came from one of my clients. Interestingly, that was the strongest negative vibration I recurred from my long string of failed relationships. They were either emotionally inept, lived far away or traveled a great deal.

When you continue creating unavailable relationships, my question to you is, “Is something in you that is afraid to commit, or afraid to be truly open in a love relationship”? That may be hard to accept at the moment, but that’s what I find to be the situation in most cases.

As a relationship life coach, I provide Relationship Life Coaching for Women. I also suggest that you get very clear about what you want. Get clear by creating a list of the qualities you want in your perfect mate.

You make the list for yourself so you can get clear concerning what it is you truly desire. You’ll start to realize where any weaknesses are in yourself as you make the list. You will see where you should go to increase your level of expectation or belief in the likelihood of receiving what you’re desiring.

To evoke the state of feeling happy expectation, next ask yourself the question “Why do I desire this”? It is time to engage your imagination. When you answer this question, imagine all the wonderful activities you will do with your attracted mate. Think of grinning, holding hands, and introducing him to your girlfriends. Think of what it will be like to be with someone who is romantic and loves to bring you a bouquet.

You create the list for you, and the Universe responds to your clarity – the undiluted intention and unresisted desire!

Many of us have been told as a child to accept what you get, it’s not polite to ask for favors, why can’t you just be content with what you have? – kind of like programming. I suggest you ask for it all and keep creating yourself into the alignment of your desires.