Get Ex Back In Fifteen Minutes? Here Is A Method

August 1st, 2010 by admin

When we’ve broken up with a loved one and want them back, we want it to happen fast. 15 minutes would be good, and it can happen. We don’t want it to take weeks or months as we try to let time heal their wounds. You can learn more about how to make your mate love you here.

But often you can get your ex back fast, in just a few days. Sometimes you can get your ex back in minutes. Here’s what you need to understand to accomplish this: Go here to learn more about Dating Advice.

First, you’ve got to understand something about emotional logic. Your ex used to have positive feelings about you. That’s why you were a couple. You both felt good about being with the other person. Obvious, right? Now, things have happened and your ex has their heart full of negative feelings about you. Anger, hurt, sadness, betrayal, boredom, depending on what happened. The positive feelings have been replaced with negative emotions. Also obvious, right?

So in order to get your ex back fast, you have to help them to release those negative emotions about you. When you help them to release them, you can get them back fast, sometimes in under 30 minutes.

How in the heck can you, who they will barely talk to, help them to release their bad feelings towards you? There are several steps to help you accomplish this, but a crucial step you already know. It’s called venting, getting things off your chest.

What you have to do is help them to vent. Let them get these feelings about you off their chest. So if you cheated on them, for example, they are feeling betrayed, hurt, ashamed. That’s what fills their heart now. You’ve got to get them to vent, to empty their cup, to tell you how they feel about what you did. You don’t argue, you don’t defend yourself, you get them to talk and tell you what they think of you.

As they do this, they are releasing these feelings. They are venting the emotional charge. They are beginning to heal. They have to do this before your apology can be accepted. They have no room in their heart to take you back until they have released most of the emotional pressure of their negative feelings about what you did.

There is a lot more to the science and art of venting, but it is a key strategy in getting your ex back in hours or minutes instead of waiting weeks or months. There are some other steps involved in getting your ex back in minutes, but this is a good start. Go here to learn more about love relationship advice.