To Get My Wife Back I Took These 5 Simple Steps

August 30th, 2009 by admin

If you’ve been dumped, or even if you dumped her, you may have made the decision to get your wife (or girlfriend) back.

Follow these simple 5 steps that I took to get my wife back and you could be well on your way to getting her back.

Step 1 – I wanted a plan of action to help me. A game plan if you like. I did an awful lot of surfing to find the info I needed.

Everything kept leading me back to two ebooks that were highly recommended, but would they do the business?

I thought I’d give both a try but one was a total let down. The other “The Magic Of Making Up” was a decent read. A bit too much fluff for my liking but the bits that mattered were really worth it.

Step 2 – I followed the advice and took some time out to get my head together. I was (I admit) in a pretty terrible state.

I followed the advice and after a week or so I was feeling far more emotionally able to tackle the problem head on.

Step 3 – I decided to go with the psychological mind moves advised in he guide. This was one of the better sections.

The psychological trick was to leave her a seeded (with curiosity) message on her voice mail. I didn’t ask her to call me back but she did within 24 hours.

Step 4 – I used another psychological hook in that I had her favorite song playing in the background when she called.

I made sure whenever she phoned that she could hear her song play in the background. She still doesn’t realise it was me that did some psychological manoeuvring, she thinks she made the first call to get us back together.

Step 5 – After a few weeks of tentative chit chat on the phone, usually her calling me, I chanced my arm and asked her if she wanted to meet for a coffee somewhere.

She accepted and the rest was a doddle for me. Coffee went on to become a meal, which went on to become a full “date”. Which then went on to her staying over occasionally.

It all ended in her staying over more than not staying, and ending in her moving back in. Six to eight weeks it took to get her back.