What I Learned From Women Who Dumped Me

January 18th, 2010 by admin

Okay, I’ll admit, I am been dumped. More than once. More than I’m like to admit, actually. And, while it hurt quite a bit each time, I have to say that I have grown from the experiences. So, here are some things I am learned from women who are dumped me.

Things I’m Learned from Girls Who are Dumped Me one : It takes 2.

Often with the pain and heartbreak of a break up, it is easy to blame the other person for your misery. But the truth is that if the relationship was no longer working, you were part of the problem. Evaluate what went on so that you can apply the lessons to your next relationship.

Things I am Learned from Women Who are Dumped Me #2: Give women their personal space.

Women like to cuddle and snuggle. They may seem to always be around. But they need their personal space too. Men have a tendency to be possessive. We want to keep tabs on where they are going and what they are doing there. If any woman has ever cheated on you, this instinct becomes stronger. But, trust is a key component in a relationship. When you invade her personal space, you send the message that you don’t trust your girlfriend. This can easily lead to the end of the relationship.

Things I’m Learned from Girls Who are Dumped Me three : You get stronger over a period.

When you wake up in the morning and the hurt’s so real, you will believe that you’ll never get over the break up. But the reality is that not only does time heal all pain, but you’ll appear from the break up a stronger person. As thinker Frederick Nietzsche declared, what which doesn’t kill me only makes me stronger.

Things I’m Learned from Girls Who are Dumped Me four : It’s OK if it was not intended to be.

Coming to accept that a relationship wasn’t meant to be is a key factor in healing. If you had started projecting your relationship into the future considering marriage, thinking about children and then the woman you were with broke everything off, consider it a blessing. It is better to end a relationship that wasn’t meant to be earlier rather than later.

Things I’m Learned from Girls Who are Dumped Me five : great things don’t occur unless you make them occur.

Finally, the last lesson I need to share with you is that you can not control what occurred, but you can control to how you respond to what occurred. If you would like nice things to occur in the future, you’ve got to make them occur.

That means getting back on the pony. Go out, meet new ladies. Have a laugh. Finally , you’ll find another relationship. And, if you have followed the recommendation in this piece about things I’m learned from ladies who are dumped me, the relationship will be even better and stronger than the last one.

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Stewart L. Haney