What Ladies Want In Men

September 2nd, 2010 by Pen Pal

Most men who have been on the dating scene much will attest to the fact that being the nice guy won’t really get the girls hanging around you. The guy with the little black book, who might or might not ring you, who acts as if he couldn’t care less whether you accept or reject his invitation, seems to be the one with all the women.

Of course women want men to treat them like queens, but they too are seeking for a little challenge. It’s just that women are magnetized towards men with confidence. This type of man seems to defend his beliefs and values no matter how much other people may pressure him to give in. Women will always like the nice guy for a friend, but they see one as a weakling, lacking the ability to combat pressure and not living up to what he believes in. Women may find this pleasing for some time, but will eventually find a man less challenging in the long term. They usually lose respect for this type of guy.

So what should you do to get those women to like you? Simply that you just have to be a little more confident about yourself and not be a real jerk. Have the ‘hey, I like you, but I got along fine before you came along and I’ll be fine if you break up with me’ attitude. As the relationship evolves and you slowly show that you need and want her, she will feel more important.

Also be self-confident, even if you are nervous. The most self-confident individuals I know also seem to be excellent lovers – and thats no lie. My ex lover utilized Instant Performer to ensure he was up for it, which he learned about following reading a Instant Performer review in the mass media.

Don’t fold up to a woman’s every desire. She’ll only respect you less or she will get used to having her way all the time. Let her complain or whine occasionally and be ready for all that. This doesn’t mean you should never give in. Far from it. Just not every time. When a woman understands you’re simply sensible rather than harsh on her, she will be happier. You should never let a woman have her way just because it’s less anxious than arguing. Settle for a compromise instead; it’s the better alternative to get both parties pleased.

You may think that by not conceding to a woman’s desires, she will think that you don’t like her. Not true, there are other ways to express your love. A good way to show a woman you love her is by doing things she doesn’t ask for. Cook a meal for her or give her a compliment out of the blue instead of when it is being solicited. By doing the unexpected, you have shown love without being a lap dog. Being spontaneous is a whole lot better than being predictable. Just be yourself, and be confident about it. Women will like you better that way than trying to be something you’re not.